* fix: dont always optimize between expressions

Fixes #42291

The frontend produces expressions like

```
[:between
 [+ [:field ... {:temporal-bucket :day] [:interval 2 :day]]
 [:relative-datetime -1 :week]
 [:relative-datetime 0 :week]]
```

This should not be optimized because of the mixed `:day` and `:week`
units. However, it was being optimized since the compatible units
weren't being properly picked up by the match.

* Disable suspcicios args eastwood lint, kondo does it better

* Stop autobucket to day when adding a time interval