[Apps] Hydrate action_id on is_write Card (#25075)

* [Apps] Hydrate action_id on is_write Card

It'll be helpful for the frontend if we send back the created action_id
when saving an `is_write` Card.

Also update the `api/card` tests to ensure that a QueryAction (and by
fk constraints the Action) is created/deleted as expected when
changing `is_write`.

* Add extra arg to more result-fns