fix: bigquery more resilient querying (#48175)

* fix: bigquery more resilient querying

Inline some function calls to make it easier to track what's happening.

Make sure that cancellation during the initial query and subsequent page
fetches are handled properly. Explicitly throw when cancelled.

Only retry queries if bigquery says they are retryable.

Try to cancel the BigQuery job if an exception or cancellation occurs.

* Add comment explaining execution flow

* Bump bigquery deps

* Bump biquery dependencies

* Fix tests

* Fix formatting