Fix long running queries possibly piling up via auto-refresh (#32754)

* Simplify the code that fixes dashboard tab race condition

Remove a part of dashboard reducer that addressed the race condition
from https://github.com/metabase/metabase/pull/31578/files#r1240203745.

I revert the code back to make it simpler and fix the race condition by
calling certain actions in the right order.

* Update the todo comment to use more standard todo tag

* Prevent fetching a dashcard when the previous API isn't done and is auto-refresh

* Only skip loading new dashcard on dashcoard auto refresh

* fixup! Simplify the code that fixes dashboard tab race condition

* Clean up dashboard action

Rename an action with misleading name

* Make the boolean flag easier to understand

* fixup! Make the boolean flag easier to understand

* Add E2E

* Remove commented out code

* Correct `startTime` behavior

* Fix the case when navigating between dashboards

* Make isRefreshing logic easier to follow

* Fix failed unit tests