backport: Support both name & field ref-based column keys in viz settings on...

backport: Support both name & field ref-based column keys in viz settings on read and upgrade on write (#46383)

Fixes #48046

Manual backport of d3a51585 to fix customer escalation in

  Not renamed fields in a same table join inherit the renamed name in exports #48046.

Conflicts:
	e2e/test/scenarios/dashboard-filters/temporal-unit-parameters.cy.spec.js
	frontend/src/metabase/static-viz/lib/settings.ts
	frontend/src/metabase/visualizations/lib/settings/column.js
	frontend/src/metabase/visualizations/lib/utils.js
	frontend/src/metabase/visualizations/shared/settings/column.ts
	frontend/src/metabase/visualizations/visualizations/Table.unit.spec.js
	src/metabase/query_processor/streaming/xlsx.clj