Rename feature to query-reference-validation (#45986)

.clj-kondo/config.edn

...tabase_enterprise/query_reference_validation/api_test.clj

enterprise/backend/src/metabase_enterprise/api/routes.clj

...rc/metabase_enterprise/query_reference_validation/api.clj

...tabase_enterprise/query_reference_validation/api_test.clj

src/metabase/models/user.clj

src/metabase/public_settings/premium_features.clj