Fix table viz settings when query is out of sync with the setting (#38912)

e2e/test/scenarios/question/settings.cy.spec.js

...s/visualizations-tabular/table-column-settings.cy.spec.js

frontend/src/metabase-lib/Question.ts

frontend/src/metabase-lib/queries/utils/dataset.ts

...d/src/metabase/dashboard/components/DashCard/DashCard.tsx

...dActionsPanel/ChartSettingsButton/ChartSettingsButton.tsx

...ts/DashCard/DashCardActionsPanel/DashCardActionsPanel.tsx

...rc/metabase/querying/components/FieldPanel/FieldPanel.tsx

...e/querying/components/FieldPanel/FieldPanel.unit.spec.tsx

...tend/src/metabase/querying/components/FieldPanel/index.ts

...tend/src/metabase/querying/components/FieldPanel/types.ts

...tend/src/metabase/querying/components/FieldPanel/utils.ts

frontend/src/metabase/querying/index.ts

...ick-actions/actions/HideColumnAction/HideColumnAction.tsx

.../src/metabase/visualizations/components/ChartSettings.jsx

...tSettingAddRemoveColumns/ChartSettingAddRemoveColumns.tsx

...dRemoveColumns/ChartSettingAddRemoveColumns.unit.spec.tsx

...ngs/ChartSettingTableColumns/ChartSettingTableColumns.tsx

...ttings/ChartSettingTableColumns/DatasetColumnSelector.tsx

...settings/ChartSettingTableColumns/QueryColumnSelector.tsx