Apply schema inclusion/exclusion filtering to sql-jdbc drivers (#19651)

* Apply schema inclusion/exclusion filtering to sql-jdbc drivers

Update `sql-jdbc` namespaces to handle schema inclusion/exclusion patterns when filtering schemas

Add new generic schema inclusion/exclusion test for sql-jdbc drivers that define the property

Update Snowflake and Redshift driver manifests to include schema filtering property

Create `db-details->schema-filter-patterns` util fn to turn DB details into the inclusion/exclusion patterns

Move schema inclusion/exclusion filtering code to new namespace (since it's not strictly used by `:sql-jdbc` derived drivers)

Move existing tests accordingly

Add schema inclusion/exclusion check to the new `filtered-syncable-schemas` multimethod (and updating docstring)

Change `:redshift` impl of `filtered-syncable-schemas` to call the `:sql-jdbc` version instead

Use new multimethod instead for `filtered-syncable-schemas`, and have default impl of `syncable-schemas` call that

Mark `syncable-schemas` as deprecated and include notes on the new method (and update driver markdown file accordingly)