Add serialization hierarchy, serialize Database, Table and Field (#23622)

Serialization of Databases, Tables, Fields

This brought a few core changes:
- Add `serdes-entity-id` to abstract the field used for the ID
- Pass the options to `extract-one` so it can eg. do encryption things.
- Handle dates in YAML storage and ingestion
- `:serdes/meta` now holds the entire hierarchy, not just the leaf model+ID pair.

There's an open problem here about the right way to handle secrets like
a database's password. Do we assume both sides have the same
`MB_ENCRYPTION_SECRET_KEY`? Provide a serdes-specific password the user
just made up, and every secret gets decrypted with the source key, encrypted with
the serdes key, stored, decrypted with the serdes key, and encrypted with
the destination key?