backported "Build script overhaul 2023" (#28782)

* Build script overhaul 2023 (#28767)

* Build Script overhaul

* Remove stray deps.edn

* Include :ci profile for build and release tests

* Fix release script

* Update markdown dox

* Update another dox

* Tweakz

* Don't pin new version of data.xml to core project, just for build scripts

* Ignore unrecognized options

* Fix i18n/enumerate

* Fix broken link

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Co-authored-by: Cam Saul <1455846+camsaul@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Nemanja <31325167+nemanjaglumac@users.noreply.github.com>